http://www.onlygoodmovies.com/blog/category/good-movies/
This site lists good films from all different sorts of genres, from “good time travel movies”, to “good movies for rednecks” haha… definitely worth checking out
http://www.onlygoodmovies.com/blog/category/good-movies/
This site lists good films from all different sorts of genres, from “good time travel movies”, to “good movies for rednecks” haha… definitely worth checking out
I don’t want you to know you love me, I just want you to know if you’ll be okay.
Song to the Siren
On the floating, shapeless oceans
I did all my best to smile
til your singing eyes and fingers
drew me loving into your eyes.
And you sang “Sail to me, sail to me;
Let me enfold you.”
Here I am, here I am waiting to hold you.
Did I dream you dreamed about me?
Were you here when I was full sail?
Now my foolish boat is leaning, broken love lost on your rocks.
For you sang, “Touch me not, touch me not, come back tomorrow.”
Oh my heart, oh my heart shies from the sorrow.
I’m as puzzled as a newborn child.
I’m as riddled as the tide.
Should I stand amid the breakers?
Or shall I lie with death my bride?
Hear me sing: “Swim to me, swim to me, let me enfold you.”
“Here I am. Here I am, waiting to hold you.”
The heat of the moment is a powerful, dangerous thing. We all know this. If we’re happy we may be overly generous. Maybe we leave a big tip, or buy a boat. If we’re irritated, we may snap. Maybe we rifle off that nasty email to the boss or punch someone. And for a fleeting second, we feel great. But the regret — and the consequences — may last years or even a lifetime. At least the regret will serve us well, right? Lesson learned? Maybe. Maybe not.
My friend Eduardo Andrade and I wondered if emotions could influence how people make decisions even after the heat or anxiety or exhilaration wears off. We suspected they could. As research going back to Festinger’s cognitive dissonance theory suggests, the problem with emotional decisions is that our actions loom larger than the conditions under which the decisions were made.
When we confront a situation, our mind looks for a precedent among past actions without regard to whether a decision was made in emotional or unemotional circumstances. Which means we end up repeating our mistakes, even after we’ve cooled off. I said that Eduardo and I wondered if past emotions influence future actions but, really, we worried about it. If we were right, and recklessly poor emotional decisions guide later “rational” moments, well then we’re not terribly sophisticated decision-makers, are we?